My Small Group Isn't Working

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Jun 15

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Small groups can feel frustrating, awkward, and sometimes even disappointing. But what if many of the things we dislike about small groups are actually part of God's design for our growth? We sat down to explore why local church community matters, what the Bible says about life together, and why staying connected to a small group may be more important than we realize. From encouragement and accountability to bearing burdens and living on mission, we discuss six gifts God gives us through Christian community—and why those gifts are often disguised as inconveniences.

What We Learned

Small groups help keep you a Christian
- Based primarily on Hebrews 3:12–13.
- We need regular encouragement, exhortation, and accountability from other believers so we don't drift from faith or become hardened by sin.
Small groups fight against Bible isolationism
- The Bible was meant to be read, understood, and applied in community.
- Other believers help us see blind spots and apply God's Word faithfully.
Small groups broaden your tribe
- They connect us with people in different life stages, ages, backgrounds, and experiences.
- This helps us find our unity in Christ rather than in shared preferences or circumstances.
Small groups expose our selfishness
- Difficult personalities, differing preferences, and relational friction reveal areas where we need repentance and growth.
- Learning to love people who are different from us forms Christlike character.
Small groups help us share and bear burdens
- Based on Galatians 6:2.
- They create opportunities for prayer, practical care, encouragement, accountability, and tangible support during difficult seasons.
Small groups empower the mission
- Christian community doesn't exist merely for comfort or friendship.
- Small groups strengthen believers to share the gospel, pray for others, persevere in ministry, and participate together in God's mission.