Who stays home with the kids?
When it comes to marriage, parenting, and household rhythms, how do you decide who stays home with the kids—and does the Bible give us a clear answer? This episode was sparked by a listener’s thoughtful question, and it opens up a rich, honest conversation between Jimmy and Kelly about work, gender roles, home life, and how Scripture speaks into modern family dynamics.
Rather than offering one-size-fits-all rules, Jimmy and Kelly explore:
What work actually means from a biblical perspective (hint: it’s not just about getting a paycheck)
Why both men and women are called to be “homeward” in their orientation
Whether Titus 2 and Proverbs 31 offer mandates or models
How biology, seasons of life, and spiritual maturity shape our roles
The trap of devaluing “hidden” work, and how God sees it differently
You’ll hear personal stories from their own marriage—including seasons where roles shifted drastically—and how community, prayer, and mutual submission have helped guide their decisions. This is a nuanced, compassionate discussion that holds tight to Scripture while allowing for grace, complexity, and real-life application.
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